Do We Need to Forgive People Who Abuse Us?

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I’ve had several patients tell me that they couldn’t forgive people who had abused them but they were no longer troubled by thinking about them. Then a few other patients told me that they were finally able to forgive their abusers and felt more at peace about it now.  So, do we need to forgive…

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Revisiting Guns and Violence in Our Country

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We own more than 310 million guns [2009 National Institute of Justice report]. This is the most of any nation in the world with India coming in second with an estimated 46 million guns. So, we have more than seven times the number of guns compared to the second place country. We are also the…

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Wisdom From the Last Happy Doctor

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In a guest column in the November 5, 2017 edition of the Asheville Citizen Times by Marsha Fretwell, M.D., she has concluded that she might be the last happy doctor.  This is because she had practiced as a geriatrician and thus had only Medicare to interact with as more than 96% of her patients were…

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It is Time to Act

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It is time for us [Americans] to take action to keep our children safe [and thus reduce the rate that our children die]. An opinion piece in the February 18, 2028 New York Times by David Leonhardt reports that the United States is now “the most dangerous of affluent nations for a child to be…

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The Butterfly Effect and You

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With reference to chaos theory, the butterfly effect refers to the phenomenon whereby a minute localized change in a complex system can have large effects elsewhere [Dictionary: In chaos theory, the butterfly effect is the sensitive dependence on initial conditions in which a small change in one state of a deterministic nonlinear system can result…

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Suicide and the Impact on Those Left Behind

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Suicide continues to increase in the United States. I have no doubt that this is directly related to increased stress in the lives of those who have died by suicide. I also believe that a major factor in their decision to harm themselves was feeling alone and isolated. So, they felt disconnected from others and…

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Lithium for Ptsd: a Little Bit Goes a Long Way

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For a couple of years I have been prescribing low doses of lithium carbonate to help people with PTSD [post traumatic stress disorder] not react as much to past traumatic experiences when they are recalled.  Those who respond report feeling less anxious and less reactive when they think about past stressful events. It is like…

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