Happiness vs Unhappiness

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I recently read an opinion editorial from the July 20,2014 New York Times by Arthur Brooks who is President of the American Enterprise Institute.   Mr. Brooks wrote about ways to achieve happiness and what can get in the way of this.  He rules out wealth, fame, power as ways to happiness and even indicates…

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Changing Behaviors: Communities vs Laws

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I have already blogged about changing driving speeds in my former neighborhood in the blog entitled: It Takes A Neighborhood To Change A Speed Limit.”  In that blog I recalled an experience getting a speed limit lowered as I was told by the traffic engineer to first get my neighbors to drive slower and then…

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Is Passive Suicidal Ideation Really Passive?

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An article by Robert I Simon, M.D. in Current Psychiatry, Vol 13, No 3, March 2014, talks about passive suicidal ideation and feels that active suicidal ideation [a plan] is also present. Dr. Simon believes that there is always a continuum of severity of thoughts and feelings and indicates changes in the patient’s psychiatric disorder.…

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Revisiting Grief

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I have previously blogged about grief and wondered if our ability to reach a level of acceptance about our loss is important as the acceptance will keep us from continuing to experience the absence of our loved one.  This continued feeling of loss can occupy our brains and keep us stuck in the past.  So,…

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Grief Revisited

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I have continued to wonder about why grief is often so crippling and difficult to resolve. It seems that many people get stuck focused on past memories of the loved one who has died.  I keep wondering why the memories have to be so painful.  As I thought about this I remembered that I have…

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Home is…where the Kitchen is?

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Recently I was speaking with Curtis Duffy about his career as a chef.  We talked about his realizing that even as a child he felt most at home in the kitchen.  He described his increasing awareness of how important this feeling of at home was. He realized that he could trust that this feeling would…

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